If
you’re going to achieve your deepest dreams and desires, you must understand
how your mind works. When you learn how to tap into the deep reserves of your
mind, you turn:
·
Probably into possibly
·
‘I can’t’ into ‘I can’
·
‘Can I?’ into ‘How can I?’
Here
are some ways to get motivated and achieve your goals:
Feel It
Already Done.
This works great for a fitness or wellness goal (or
any goal). Most people have a hard time going to the gym because they’re so
focused on all the pain and inconvenience of a workout – and since we
habitually move away from pain – we dread going to the gym.
Instead, try feeling what it would be like if you
had already finished your workout. Get those good vibes going. Feel what it
would be like if you had already worked out. Feel energetic and alive. As you
get into this state, your desire and enthusiasm to workout will inspire you to
act.
Give
Yourself A Reward.
This is very similar to feeling as if it is already
done, but with one small difference. If you have a hard time feeling the
feelings of having it already done, then the next best thing you can do is give
yourself a reward. But don’t just give yourself a reward just for the sake of
it – you want to feel the reward.
Feel the reward. Associate strong positive feelings
with the end result – your reward. When you feel the reward, you reinforce that
goal and your desire with your subconscious. You reinforce that goal to your
subconscious when you reinforce the feeling. The stronger and more positive the
feelings are, the faster you leap into action.
Work
With A Finish Line.
Be clear with your outcome from the very beginning.
Set a finish line.
Create
Reasons Why You Will Succeed.
The majority of people are so focused on the
negative aspects of their goals that they can’t help but talk themselves out of
them. The way to gain back control is by gently bringing your attention to the
reasons why you can do something – as opposed to the very opposite.
The more often you focus on what you can do – the
easier and more natural it becomes for you to go out and start doing it. You
must realize that your mind is not in control – you are.
Start managing your mind by creating a list of
reasons why you can’t help but achieve your goal. As you begin this process,
your confidence and enthusiasm will soar.
Have A Bigger Vision.
This is my absolute favourite way of getting
motivated. It takes less time commitment on a day-to-day basis, but requires
your persistence. This type of sustaining motivation is for much bigger goals.
It’s better fit for the ambitious type who has a
much bigger project or goal to accomplish; one that will take you more than a
year to complete. If you want sustaining motivation that grows stronger and
more compelling each and every day, create a bigger vision. The way to do that
is by visualizing your outcome daily for a minimum of 5 minutes.
Use “Pain” as Leverage.
Use pain as a motivator. Think of an important goal
you would like to accomplish in the next year. Now that you have it in mind,
make an agreement with your wife/husband/brother/sister or anyone who knows you
well. Put a contract in writing with them that says if you don’t achieve your
goal in the next 3 months you will give them $500 in cash. Sign it.
For most people, loosing that kind of money is more
painful than taking action towards their goals. They will instantly leap into
action to avoid loosing that money – and guess what else happens?
You get motivated and do the impossible to achieve
your goal
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